Batun karyewar aure a yau a cikin al’ummarmu ya zama abin ban tsoro. Ya zama batun damuwa a wurare masu zafi saboda auratayya a kwanakin nan bata daɗewa.

Yawancin aure tsakanin shekaru 1 zuwa 4 sun rushe jim kadan bayan kammalawa. Wannan mataki a hankali yana maida saki ya zama ruwan dare a cikin al’umma. Al’umma gaba daya suma abin ya shafa.

Dalilai masu yuwuwa na wannan yawan kashe aure an lissafta su a ƙasa:

Butulci

Butulci shine aikin rashin aminci a cikin aure; Kamar yadda binciken da Amato and Private suka gudanar, sun gano cewa a shekara ta 2000 kashi 21.6% na yawan sakin aure a kasarmu a yau yana faruwa ne sakamakon rashin butulci a cikin aure.

Kamus na Turanci ya bayyana shi a matsayin al’ada ko misali na yin jima’i ko soyayya da wani wanda ba ma’aurata guda ɗaya ba.

Cin amana ya hada da daya daga cikin ma’auratan yana yaudarar juna, kuma idan suka gane sai su yanke shawarar yanke auren.

Dalilan Kudi

Yawancin mutane a yau suna yin aure saboda kuɗi. Basu yin la’akari da ainihin dalilin aure ba, wanda shine “ƙauna” basa son wahala kuma basa damuwa idan mutumin ya kasance mai aminci da kyawun hali.

Basu ma la’akari da abin da mutum yayi domin rayuwar yau da kullum. A wannan yanayin, lokacin da babban sha’awar wannan aure, ahine “Kudi”, ya ƙare, zasu nemi hanyar da zata iya kawo karshen auren.

Shigar mata cikin wannan hali ne yasa a yau muke ganin sababbin aure tsakanin shekara daya zuwa uku suna mutuwa.

Rashin Daidaituwa

Kamus ya bayyana cewa ba shi yiwuwa a yi zaman tare, ba tare da juna ba, saboda bambance-bambance. Rashin daidaituwa shine yanayin rashin amincewa juna. Hakan yana haifar da sa’ad da ma’auratan biyu suka fara jin cewa ba zasu iya zama tare ba domin ko dai salon rayuwarta ya bambanta da na a abokin zama.

Dalilan wannan mutumi su ne, daya daga cikin abokan zama yana yin gardama da yawa, abokin tarayya baya goyon baya, ko kuma abokin tarayya yana zagi da cin zarafi.

Har ila yau, akwai lokacin da ra’ayoyinsu basu tafiya tare, zasu iya yanke shawarar yanke auren.